The Inside Knowledge That Helps You
Keep Your Child Safe At School
The Trap Map™
Common (and Uncommon) Traps
We explain the defensive tactics – the traps - used by schools to avoid dealing with bullying. If you don’t know about the traps, you can waste hours of your week doing things that won’t stop the bullying, and even risk the school accusing you of being a bully!
Sidestepping the Traps
Once you know these traps you can sidestep them with ease. We give you the exact practical steps you can take to put you and your child in a strong position to counteract bullying.
The Evidence Snapshot™
As all parents know, children vary in their response to bullying. We show you the key things to look for, including the apparently small details that build a powerful picture about how the bullying has impacted your child. We also cover when to get external help.
Questions that Get to the Heart of the Issue
How to supportively find out what has been happening. How to ask questions that will quickly get to the heart of a bullying incident or a bullying relationship. How to open up conversations that both empower your child and bring you closer together.
Powerful tools are readily available on your phone, computer or notebook that can help you collect the evidence you need to get the school to act. We demonstrate why, when and how to use these tools so that you can easily document and communicate the impact of the bullying on your child.
The Accountability Trail™
The Tennis Match Playbook
We describe in detail the rhythm needed so you can elegantly and courteously shift the pressure of unaddressed bullying to the leaders of your school, so they take action. We take you through tone, timings, and how to manage your own internal reactions as you ramp up the pressure.
How to develop mastery in the art of using words to influence behavour. We show you the how, what and when of creating letters to the school that will get their attention straightaway. This includes how to use the included templates to tailor what you write about bullying incidences.
Sometimes schools delay taking action. We take you step-by-step through tactics to use to escalate your concern to the next level above the existing school leaders – when to escalate, how to do it and what to say – to get the results you and your child deserve.
Building Strength and Power
How to move from the trauma of bullying to a life of joy, strength and freedom. We show how to build hope and wellbeing through proven practices that benefit all the family. We also address how to break through the walls of self-doubt created by the impact of bullying.
Success At School
How to re-build academic achievement when education results have been badly affected by bullying. How to work with year, class and sports teachers to adjust expectations and programs if your child needs tailored help.
Self Paced Videos
- You will receive access to a membership site where you will receive videos every week with step by step instructions on how to stop the bullying of your child.
- You will have ongoing access to the videos and can go back and review them at any time.
Weekly Coaching Calls
- Weekly group coaching calls will be held over a Zoom.us meeting.
- You will be able to ask questions and get help when you are having problems.
- You will learn faster as you see Bryan and Mary work with other parents to resolve their problems and challenges.
- Each session will be recorded and added to the membership site.
Templates and Checklists
- You will be provided with templates and checklists we have used when stopping school bullying experienced by children.
- The templates are designed so that you can create powerful messages that help keep your child safe at school.
Private Facebook Group
- You will be added to the private Facebook group accessible only to people enrolled in the program.
- The group is where you have your questions answered in between coaching calls and have access to Mary and Bryan.
- You will be able to network with other parents who are on the same journey.
“It's a step by step process we've used to quickly stop school bullying and rebuild a positive, happy future.”
Stop School Bullies™ Co-Founder
Frequently Asked Questions
When do I get access to the Stop School Bullies™ program?
You will receive your first videos as soon as you enrol in the program.
What happens after I purchase the Stop School Bullies™ program?
After you submit your order, we will contact you to add you to the membership site, the private Facebook Group and give you the details for your group coaching calls.
Will this work for me, my child is at a ______________ school?
Stop School Bullies works across school settings. For example, it has been applied in both public schools and private schools, primary school and high school. As long as you’re a parent or guardian for a schoolchild, this will work for you.
What if I have questions or need support?
Part of the success of the Stop School Bullies™ program is in the action-focused community and accountability. As a member of this community, you will be encouraged to engage, add value and contribute your challenges and dilemmas. Your community is here to support you, to keep you from getting distracted, to give you feedback and advice, and ultimately to help you succeed in getting school bullies off the back of your child.
I'm not good with conflict, can I still do this?
This program is perfect for you. We will take you step by step through the process and give you templates to use. If you’re not good at handling conflict, then this is the best way to support your child without getting offside with school leaders. And it’s the most effective approach because you’re gathering evidence and holding the school accountable. The journey will leave you empowered as a parent who has transformed the school experience of your child.
If you have followed all the steps and attended all coaching calls and are not happy in the first 30 days, then we will refund your money.
If you are not happy with the program in the first 30 days, then we will refund your money in full.
How long does my membership last?
Your membership in the Stop School Bullies™ community lasts for a full 6 weeks from the time you join. In that time, you will participate in 6 live group coaching calls and see how powerful it is to consistently improve your child’s experience with bullying at school – to stop the bullying in it’s tracks. Past the 6 weeks, you will keep access to the video trainings. If you would like to continue in our Stop School Bullies™ Facebook group and have access to the weekly coaching calls, you keep your membership for $97/month for as long as you’d like. We’re here to support you for the long run.